My Birth

I was born on July 24, 1937 in Ogden, Utah and all the Mormons were celebrating my birthday that day (Pioneer Day) Ha! My parents were Rulon Alan Ward and Rose Dredge. They lived across the street from each other and were good friends. In fact, when my father was born Grandma Ward didn’t know what to name him. She was visiting with Grandmother Dredge and she suggested she name him Rulon. Little did she know at the time she was naming her future son-in-law. 
Rulon Ward and Rose Dredge
Mother wrote about their courtship: “We’d grown up together and were more like brother and sister. We’d been in each other’s homes all our lives and he’d always called my mother Aunt Nellie. A day after I came home from college, Rulon came right over to our home and asked me for a date for Saturday night. I thought he was just kidding so I said, “Oh, sure!” A few days later, he called me on the phone to check and see if we really had a date, and I told him I thought he had been kidding me. He said, “Well, I’m not!” We went together for six weeks before we were engaged, and we were married in three months.”
Rose and Rulon Ward
Dad and mom were married October 21, 1936 in the Logan Temple. Early that next Spring mother and dad moved out on the ranch by Snowville, Utah. Grandpa Ward had purchased some ground in that area. Their first home was a sheep camp and they worked hard burning sagebrush and clearing the ground for farming. Mother was expecting me that summer. Daddy taught her how to shoot a 22 gun. Instead of “Annie Get Your Gun” It was “Rosie get your gun”. She spent a lot of her time shooting rabbits, rattlesnakes, and squirrels. When I was born, I was shell shocked and have never been able to slow down or sit still for very long since. 
Rulon and Rose Ward
A short while before I was born, Grandpa Joseph W. Ward came to visit mother and dad and said he hadn’t been able to sleep for several nights, as someone kept telling him over and over to get mother to a specialist right away. He knew there was something wrong. He insisted they go to Ogden to see his cousin who was an obstetrician there. Dad took mother to Ogden, but they didn’t go to visit the doctor. When they returned home, Grandpa Ward came to visit them the next morning and said, “You didn’t go to the doctor, did you? I know you didn’t, because I had a bad night again. Someone keeps after me, so if you’re not going to take her to that doctor, I am!” He talked to Grandma Nellie about it and she decided to go with them. Dr. Ward said mother would not be able to give birth, and that he would have a hard time saving both of us if she went into labor. So it was decided I would be delivered by cesarean surgery. Grandpa always said to me, “Dolly, if Grandpa Ward hadn’t seen that your parents went to Ogden to that doctor, we’d never had you.” (Experiences and Memories of Rulon Allen and Rose Dredge Ward, p. 31-32)
Karolyn Rose Ward
My parents named me Karolyn Rose, after my mother’s first name. Dad always used to sing this song “Carolina Rose” to me. I was born at the McKay-Dee Hospital in Ogden, Utah. Mother recorded some memories of my early years: “When we brought [Karolyn] home, I’d boil bottles and water and prepare several bottles of milk. She only nursed a small amount out of one bottle and that took her all day. Rulon said he knew he’d made a big enough hole in the nipple, so it had to be that something was very wrong with our baby. So off we went 150 miles to see Dr. Ward in Ogden, Utah. He looked her over and really checked everything and looked at us and said, “There’s nothing wrong with this kid.” He tried her bottle and said, “She’s nursing strong, so it has to be the nipple.” He got a large safety pin and heated it hot and put it in the end of the rubber nipple and made the hole larger. Then he sat down and fed her and she really emptied the bottle. He showed us how to burp her also and said, “You kids take this baby home and fix her other nipples like I’ve shown you, and I want to check her in a month.” We felt like crawling out the door, we were so embarrassed. It didn’t take Karolyn long to get fat and sassy when she got a chance to eat. She was a good baby. She only had a little fuzz on her head which was a light blonde color. I thought she’d never get her hair. I put bonnets on her for a long time because people would say, “That’s a fine-looking boy you’ve got there!” even though I had her dressed in frilly girls clothes."
Karolyn on the farm
"When her hair grew in, it was fine and curly, just like her dad’s hair. Rulon started jumping Karolyn up and down on his lap when she was four or five months old and she loved that. She’d about wear everyone out wanting to jump constantly. So we got a jumper and she really got her exercise and developed her muscles and legs, so that is no wonder she started walking at eight or nine months of age.” (Experiences and Memories of Rulon Allen and Rose Dredge Ward, p. 33)

Parents and Grandparents

My Grandparents, Joseph Welton Ward and Elizabeth Allen, and Jesse H. Dredge and Nellie Kunz, were from Malad, Idaho. Both grandparents were sheepmen and farmers. 
Joseph Welton Ward and Elizabeth Allen
Jesse Horatio Dredge and Nellie Kunz
I remember Grandpa Ward would call me “Dolly” every time I walked in the door. I remember walking in the house one time when I wasn’t very old and he was laying on the couch and said, “Come here Dolly” and I went over and laid down by him and he just hugged me and talked to me. He died quite early in my life, so that’s mostly what I remember about him. 
Grandpa Joseph Ward
Grandpa Dredge was a businessman, and he was kind of stern and maybe I was a little afraid of him, I don’t know, but I always admired him. He was a patriarch and gave me my patriarchal blessing when I was twelve. We had to get special permission because we didn’t live in his area or Stake, but we got permission so he could give it to me. I was always closer and warmer to my Grandma Dredge.
Jesse and Nellie Dredge
Grandma Dredge made me feel like I couldn’t do anything wrong, so I think that’s why I felt so close to her. She always made me feel very special and fussed over me, letting me know how much she loved me, and made me feel good about myself which is what I needed. She was the best storyteller. She’d have us sit around her and she could tell stories with such animation you could just see it all and feel it all. I’ve never forgotten her Indian stories. She was there when I did the show in Palmayra and I was so tickled to see her there and have her there to watch the show that night. When I graduated from High School and spoke in my Seminary Graduation I remember looking down and seeing Grandma & Grandpa Dredge sitting there and her looking at me and just beaming from ear to ear, just giving me the confidence that I needed because I was so scared. After she met Arlin and was always so sweet with him, I knew she loved Arlin, and that made me feel so good too. I never had a mother-in-law and I had always looked forward to having one, but since Arlin’s mother had passed away Grandma Dredge kind of filled all that in for me. She was just really special to me.
Grandmother Nellie Dredge
My mother was a sweetheart, but she wasn’t very affectionate or anything and very critical of everything I did. It seemed I worked so hard all my life trying to please her. I did things much faster than she did, so one day when she sent me to clean the bathroom and I did it and came back she said, “You did that too fast. You go back there and do it again” and she wouldn’t even go look and see what I had done. Just little things like that. Mom stayed home to raise us kids, but she was always busy. She was Relief Society President for quite a few years when we lived out in Snowville. I remember going with her to visit some of the older people and one lady had a really bad leg. I think she had diabetes and it had ulcerated. I remember going with mother and watching her change her bandages and seeing the gangrene and it was a horrible experience and I have never forgotten that smell. But every once in a while, I would go with mother when she was Relief Society President and visit the ladies, and I wasn’t very old. She wasn’t into sewing, so she would always take me shopping to buy new things and it didn’t matter what the price was, if we liked it then she bought it for me. We’d always have to go to Ogden where the mall and the big stores were since there wasn’t much where we lived. In high school I remember you just had to have a Jansen Sweater to be ‘in’ and all those things mother would get me. Mother was blessed in a way where she would have things come to her in dreams. One time she had a dream about her brother Dave who was killed in a car accident near Provo and she told my Dad all about it before they even got the news. It happened several times when they were first married and she’d tell daddy about things that would come to her, and at first he’d sort of laugh and knock it aside, but after they were married for a few years he paid attention to everything she said. She was told in her patriarchal blessing that she would be blessed with the spirit of discernment, and she was.
Rose Dredge Ward
My dad was a farmer. Both of my grandparents were sheep men, so my dad raised sheep while we lived on a dry farm and grew hay and grain, but mostly grain because we didn’t have any irrigation or anything. My dad worked in Garland, Utah through the winter months at the sugar factory when he wasn’t farming. He sold mineral and did a few other side jobs, but mostly farming and milking cows and raising sheep. What I remember most about my father while growing up on the ranch was his love for the sheep. We always had little lambs lying by the stove downstairs to keep warm. Daddy had a very tender heart and would do anything for anybody. Lots of times people would stop at the ranch for help of one kind or another and he would help them out if he could. He would give you the shirt off his back, but he was very independent as far as letting anyone do much for him. He never wanted to be a burden to anyone. When I started high school and started dating, I remember Daddy telling me, "Don't ever do anything you wouldn't want to do in front of me." That always stayed with me. He was a sensitive sweetheart and was always so good to me. 

Siblings

I had a baby brother David, who was born 15 months after me. We grew up together and I dressed him in my dresses. He was always a good sport. When the Watkins man would come around about once a month, he would look at him and ask, “How is little Mary?” 
Karolyn and Dave
David gave me the nickname “Moose”. We’d get in the car to go somewhere and he’d say “Get over, Moose!” and that’s the only nickname I ever remember having. He loved horses and played all the sports. He had a fun personality and always had big dreams. He ended up working as a salesman and traveled around a bit and always talked about becoming a millionaire. Chasing money sort of took over his life and it was a little sad. He was married and had seven children and then divorced his first wife and got remarried and had two more children. But there was several years that went by and we never heard from him. His daughter Jana came to live with us and was planning to get married and wanted her dad there so bad. But we didn’t even know where he was. Then we had a missionary in our ward who was assigned to an area close to where we thought he might be, so we told him to keep an eye out for David Ward when he went out into the mission field. He hadn’t been down there very long, and he wrote a letter back to his mother and said, “Tell Sister Bartschi I found her brother David, and he’s the mission leader down here in this ward.” So we were able to get the message to him that Jana was getting married and wanted her dad to be here for her wedding, and he was here for the wedding.
Rose, Dave, and Rulon at Jana Ward's wedding
I mean it all just fell into place and you just knew the Lord had his hand in it or it never would have worked out the way it did. So that was one time that our prayers were really answered.
Sheila and George
Sheila was born when I was almost 5 years old. I was so thrilled to have a little sister. I really enjoyed having a baby around to love and to hold. As she got older she was really spunky and knew how to take advantage of me. Then I wasn’t sure if I really liked having her around. But we did more together than we ever did with the boys because they were usually out working with dad most of the time. She was sweet but also a little feisty and was always smarter than I was. She knew how to get what she wanted and she could work mother and dad easier than I did and I’d get so frustrated with her. She knew how to get out of doing her work and have me help her. But she’s been a wonderful sister and we have enjoyed each other over the years.
Sheila, Rose, Karolyn, George, Rulon, and Dave Ward
George was born in November after I started school in first grade. He was a joy to our family; always happy and keeping us on our toes. George was a lot of fun and he was a sweetheart, but he was never scared of anything. Mother always had us watching him constantly. She was always afraid he would get out in the wheat field, and we wouldn’t be able to find him because he had such light blonde hair. On our trip to the Grand Canyon I remember he walked right over to the edge and my dad was scared of heights so he told us, “Don’t anybody move. Don’t anybody say anything.” Because he was afraid that if we went to grab him he would move and fall over the cliff. But I can still hear Mother hollering, “Where’s George? Keep your eye on George!” He served in the military when he got older and was stationed in Alaska. Then he worked for UPS for quite a few years and that’s what he did for a living. 
George’s Memories: “Karolyn, as I remember, was always looking after me in my toddler years. Karolyn & Sheila were always dressing me as a little girl fussing over how I looked. Karolyn was always cooking & cleaning she would never waste time! I remember in high school she stayed with friends in town to enjoy many activities. After the snow she would invite friends out to the ranch to ride on the sleigh we used in feeding the livestock and then have an ice-skating party over at water lane with a big fire to keep warm. She loved to have friends come to the ranch, both boys & girls. I remember when she invited Arlin to a family gathering and he was so much fun and always willing to help with everything we were doing. He would become like a big brother to me. We always wanted to visit them in Sugar City with fun things to do and we always enjoyed our visits and still do. When I came to Dixie to play football, I loved the nice winters and never dreamed that Mom & Dad would move here after selling the ranch and the rest of the family would come visit. Karolyn & Arlin served a mission here and set a good example for the rest of us to follow. They later moved here for winters. It was so fun to enjoy the weekly game nights with them. Karolyn, I just want you to know how much our family loves you and appreciates the example you have set. We look forward to being an Eternal Family.”
-George Ward
Allen Ward
I was eleven or twelve years old when Allen was born, and he was my baby. I just took care of him all the time and enjoyed him so much. He was sick quite a bit with colds, croupe, coughing and ear infections. Mother was always putting mustard plaster (flour and mustard mixed with a little liquid to form a plaster) on flannel cloths and kept them on his chest when he had a bad cough. She’d keep it on there until the skin turned pink and then take it off before it started to really burn, but it always felt really warm. Other times she would pour alcohol on a sanitary pad and wrap it around our throats with a rag and pin it when we had a bad cough at night. It would burn for a while, but it would stop us from coughing and helped us feel better. But I was old enough to be able to help mother with Allen and I just loved on him. 
Allen Ward
After he graduated high school and went on his mission to Japan, he came and lived with us for a while and started taking  wood working classes with Arlin at Ricks College. I remember we had so many kids around the dinner table when Allen lived with us that Bryan would have to go sit at the bread board and eat because there wasn’t enough room. But he was just like a big brother to Craig and Bryan and they became really close. Then Allen met his wife Julie and they moved to Utah where he worked for BYU in their building construction department. He loved woodworking and that was his career. He got a brain tumor when he was a Stake President down in Spanish Fork and that’s when he passed away in 2004. He was only in his early 50’s. 
Sheila, Karolyn, Dave, George, Rose, Allen, and Rulon Ward

Life On The Ranch

We would spend the winters in Malad and the summers out on the ranch. With two small children, Dad and mother took an old granary and made it into some kind of living condition. I just remember mother talking about laying awake at night and listening to the mice run up and down inside the walls, and worrying about rattlesnakes getting into our beds. We were both scared to death of mice and snakes. I don’t even remember when we lived in the old granary shack. I have a picture of it, but I don’t remember it. 
Rulon with Karolyn and Dave
I do remember when Dad built the basement and we lived in the basement with only one bedroom. We had bunk beds, I was up on the top with Dave and I would sleep at one end and he was at the other end. Then Sheila and George were on the bottom bunk and Mom and Dad’s bed was over to the side of us. We lived that way for I don’t know how many years until they finished the upstairs. After they built upstairs, Sheila and I shared the basement room together and Dave slept in the front room of the basement. Mother and Dad’s room was upstairs, and George shared a room with Alan when he was born. 
Snowville Ranch Home
Snowville Ranch Home
We had a bathroom with a flushing toilet and a tub. Didn’t know what a shower was. But we had it better than a lot of people because we had the spring right there and plenty of water. Mother was a really fussy housekeeper, so our house was always clean and nicely kept. We had a wood stove for heat and a coal stove in the kitchen and that’s what mother cooked on for a few years. I remember walking out of the bedroom and coming around to the front room and going into the bathroom and the coal stove was right there against the wall where I walked to go to the bathroom and she’d put the oven door down for something, I can’t remember what was going on. There were so many mornings I would wake up and Grandpa would have a lamb in there that had just been born and needed to keep warm. But I came around and tripped and fell against the stove and burned the whole inside of my arm on that oven door. I had great big blisters that just hurt so bad and had to go to the doctor to get wrapped. I must have been in 4th or 5th grade I’m guessing. 
Mother was sick a lot. She had a lot of health problems and a lot of migraine headaches, so I wasn’t very old when she started teaching me how to cook and clean because I was the oldest and I really had to do a lot to help her. I remember coming home from high school and having to do all the laundry and at the time it was the gas-powered washing machine with the ringer, and one time it had a leak in it and we were lucky we didn’t all get asphyxiated. Mother got a real sick headache and dad came home and could smell the gas the minute he walked in the house. We were lucky.
Dad always raised all our meat. We lived on mostly mutton or deer or whatever he had. Mother would make really nice rice pudding that we all liked. We always had a garden so we just always ate whatever we could raise. We were quite a ways from the store so we didn’t get to the store very often. We made our own butter, milked our cow so we had our own milk. I remember sitting on the table with a little glass butter churn just turning the handle making the butter. But we bought our cheese at the store. Later on, when we got a hand grinder, we loved making cracked wheat cereal and that was always our breakfast. Dad would get up and cook that for us every morning. Before we went to school we had our cooked cereal. I loved to go to Grandma’s because she would soak it whole and have the whole kernels, I remember eating that at Grandma’s with brown sugar and cream and just thinking it was wonderful. We didn’t have a big variety. In fact I didn’t even know what Mexican food was until I got older. 
The boys always had plenty of dogs. I always loved the little puppies. I didn’t ever like the cat because she scratched me, so I wouldn’t have much to do with the cat. But I could take the little puppies and dress them in my doll dresses and put them in my little buggy. I remember wheeling them around the yard and they’d never jump out and run away. That worked for a while until they got big enough to jump out. Mama Rose wrote this memory: "Karolyn was always a motherly gal, right from the word 'go.' She'd mother cats and pups and Dave, and if a baby came to visit, she couldn't keep her hands off it and would always end up holding and packing the babies around and mothering them. She'd always take over our babies and mother them. I think Allen was a little confused for years just who was his mother. Karolyn washed, cooked, and helped me a great deal at the ranch during some years when I was having some bad health problems, and so she was very capable to take care of children and a home at an early age." (Experiences and Memories of Rulon Allen and Rose Dredge Ward, p. 45)
Karolyn and her bunny
Daddy had a cow and a rooster that liked to chase us kids. I remember running to that house many times with one of them after me, screaming all the way. But I’d have to go over a lot of the time and gather eggs because Dad had a big chicken coop with hundreds of chickens, and we’d have to sit and wash eggs every night. That would be our chore every day after school. We would wash the eggs and put them in crates so Dad could haul them town and deliver them to the grocery stores and sell them to bring in extra money. When Alan was old enough to bear his testimony he got up one day in sacrament meeting and said, “Heavenly Father, please bless me so I won’t have to wash any more eggs.”
We had a horse named Star, and I was always a little scared of her but I would ride her. My cousin Janice who lived in Malad but came down to live next door during the summers was the same age as me and she loved the horse, and she and Dave were really close and knew that I was scared of him. But every day it was our job to take the horse across the highway over to the water lane and herd the cattle back up over the mountain so they wouldn’t get up on the road because there were no fences, but they would come down to the water lane to get water. So Janice and Dave would always try to get my horse to buck or we’d see a rattlesnake and he’d get nervous. One time Old Star walked right out to the middle of the pond with me and acted like she was going to roll over and scared me to death. I couldn’t get my feet out of the stirrups and I was screaming. I had never learned how to swim (we were never at a swimming pool) and I was scared to death of water. We were always taught not to go by the water until you learn how to swim. I finally got her out without going over on top of me. I never wanted to take the cattle again, but of course I still had to help, so I always tried to be real busy and help mom in the house and Janice and Dave would go take care of the cows. I was always afraid of the rattlesnakes. We were trained to always watch and listen for them. We had an old dog named Blackie, and we would call him and he would kill them for us. 
We lived right by the main highway, so there were always tramps and gypsies stopping by and asking for a handout. Daddy was always giving somebody gas or food, and sometimes a place to spend the night when their car broke down. We were 30 miles from Tremonton so Daddy would always take care of them. That was before we had any telephones. I only remember bits and pieces about life during the War (WWII). One time I went up to Malad with Mom and Dad to meet the Greyhound Bus and see Uncle George, Dad’s brother, leave to go into the service. I remember seeing him dressed in his uniform and getting on the Greyhound bus, Mom and Dad cried, and it felt quite dramatic. Every now and then I would hear mother and dad talking about the war and I was always scared to death of Russia. But I don’t ever remember feeling deprived because of rations or anything because living on the farm we always had plenty of milk, butter, and food. 
Every Thanksgiving and Christmas we always had to have our carrot pudding. Grandma Dredge and Mother always used to make carrot pudding. I did it for a few years here with my kids and Bryan still makes it once in a while for his family. On Christmas I remember my daddy always waking us up by jingling some bells that he had and hollering “Merry Christmas!” So Arlin started doing that when the kids were little after I told him what my dad would do, so once in a while he did that.  
Rose and Rulon on vacation
Our family always took us on a summer trip and we’d go to Disneyland or Sea World or up to Canada and Lake Louise, Banff. I just remember them taking us on all these nice trips. I remember when we went to Sea World and watched them train the porpoises and how cute they were and how fun it was to watch them jump in the air and do different things and I really enjoyed that. 
George, Sheila, Dave, and Karolyn
I loved the mountains and the scenery in Canada, I just thought it was beautiful. It was always so clean. I remember we were on a trip to Canada and Mother wanted to go up to Lake Louise and Banff, which wasn’t very far from where we were, and Dad said “No, we don’t have time. I’ve got to get back to the ranch.” But she was driving and he fell asleep, so she turned around said, “Don’t you kids make a sound” and she kept driving until we got to the lake. It was always a treat when we could go up to Malad to visit our Grandparents at least once a month. We would go through Stone, Idaho and come up through Holbrook, come out through Arbon Valley and Samaria into Malad. It was kind of a switchback through the canyon, and my younger sister Sheila would always get so car sick she’d be throwing up by the time we got to Grandma’s house. We’d have to go slow and roll the windows down and she’d be hanging her head out the window. I remember Mother and Dad always arguing on the way home from Malad because the brothers were involved together on everything and Mother wanted Dad to be separate. One day I said to her, “How come you always get daddy so riled up and argue with him when we come back from Malad?” and she said, “So he doesn’t fall asleep while he’s driving!” Over the years he finally bought the rest of the brothers out and it was ours and everything was fine after that.
My cousin Janice and I were playmates when we were young, although she had more in common with Dave. I don’t ever remember playing dolls with her much, but we’d sneak in and borrow a few eggs to mix in with our mud pies. They would set up really well. Our homes were not very far from each other and they had a little play house we’d go play in, but it was only for the summer. The rest of the time I spent mostly alone until I got older and could have friends come over.

School Days

Karolyn Rose Ward
My school days in Snowville had four grades in one room. I had five classmates my age, 2 girls and 3 boys. Mother or Daddy would have to take us five miles to school and pick us up after. At the time the school board would even pay them for bringing us in to school because there wasn’t a bus route. It seemed like I was always waiting for them, never knowing when they would get there. We didn’t have phones in those days so I couldn’t call them. I just had to wait and see when they would show up. When I started my own family, I told Arlin, “I don’t care where we live as long as my children can walk to and from school.”
Karolyn Ward - Second Row, 4th Student from the Left
When my brother Allen was born he was sick a lot, so mother and dad decided to buy a home in Tremonton and we would spend the winters in town. That only lasted for one school year, and then they sold the home, and we spent the rest of our school years back in Snowville. I loved that year and had a great teacher, and it was so fun to walk to school and have lots of friends to play with. It was also nice to be in a classroom with all the same grade students. 
Karolyn Rose Ward
My 8th grade year was probably my worst. I had been really good friends with Kay, Pat, Rosanne, and Phyllis, but they were all a year older than me. So when they left for high school, I was left behind for a year. I was a cheerleader that year and did enjoy being a cheerleader. I don’t remember much about what games we had or who we played. I do remember spending all of my recess time crocheting. My mother never crocheted, but she did beautiful embroidery work. Grandma Dredge did crochet but she never taught me. When she’d go with Grandpa to be up in the sheep camp, they would come up to DuBois a lot of times for the summer because that’s where he had his range for all his sheep, and she would just sit and crochet all the time and make these beautiful doilies. Kay and Pat had taught me how to crochet and we spent a lot of time in the winter months crocheting hot pads and simple things. My favorite part of school was probably when I could sit and crochet through recess. I probably wasn’t the smartest student, but I did alright. I never liked writing themes.
Karolyn's Class 1951
(Karolyn is in the second row, third from the left)

High School

When I got to high school I would live in town with other families and started dating and going to dances in Salt Lake and it was fun. Mother and Dad had us stay with families in town so we wouldn’t have to make the long ride each day. I stayed my Freshman year with the Thompson family. Pat Eliason lived with them and their daughter Margaret was my age. We had the basement to ourselves pretty much. 
I attended high school at Bear River High in Garland, Utah. Our mascot was a bear. When I started high school, I was scared to death and also very shy. I really didn’t know anyone but my classmates from Snowville. But I soon made many good friends and learned how to play the saxophone in the band. It was a beautiful saxophone with kind of a two-toned gold and silver color. I once had to play a short solo at a music festival my senior year, and I remember how scared I was and how I prayed I wouldn’t make a mistake. We got a great rating so I guess I did alright. I ended up selling my saxophone when I needed money to buy a car in beauty school, and I regretted it later thinking my kids might have enjoyed playing it. The rest of my girlfriends were in the choir, and I didn’t really get into singing in choirs until I went to BYU.
Karolyn Rose Ward
My sophomore year I lived with the Gee Family in Garland. They both were teachers and I helped with the housework, fixed meals, ironed, washed, etc. That helped pay for my room and board that year. My junior and senior year I lived with the Bowcutt Family. Their daughter Sonja and I were really good friends. She was the only girl in the family with one older brother and a younger brother. Her parents owned the grocery store there in Garland. I helped her mom again with a lot of the housework. Sonja was jealous of me because I knew how to do things around the house, and her mother thought I was wonderful. But Sonja was a beautiful piano player, and I can still hear her practicing every morning before we left for school. 
Karolyn Rose Ward
I would go home on weekends if there wasn’t something more exciting to do. I had a lot of parties out at the ranch. All of my friends loved to go out there. We had ice skating parties in the winter time, down at the old Rose Ranch. Our dates would hunt jack rabbits most of the time. The girls would do the driving and the boys rode out on front with the guns, shooting rabbits. I didn’t like it when I would hear the rabbits cry. There were so many rabbits at that time they would have “Rabbit Drives” where they would pay you so much for a rabbit. 
Karolyn Rose Ward
I loved to dance and we would always go to Salt Lake to “Salt Air” or Lagoon and they would have special musicians – Duke Ellington and Nat King Cole, just to name a few. We were always thrilled when we could get a date and attend those dances. 
I got my first job working at a restaurant called “Molly’s” in Snowville when I was a Junior in High school. I was a waitress for a few months during the summer but I didn’t really like it. I stopped working there when I went back to school.
Karolyn Rose Ward
When it was time for General Conference, we would always go to Salt Lake for at least one session with our dates. We would get there as the morning session was letting out and then stand in line to get into the Tabernacle and wait for the afternoon session. They were special occasions. I remember mother taking me and my friend Cheryl when President George Albert Smith lay in state. I remember his long white beard and how nice he looked. 
Class of 1954 (Karolyn is in the third row, farthest to the right)
The year I graduated from Seminary I was asked to be one of the speakers. I was so frightened and never prayed so hard in my life. I remember looking down in the audience and seeing Grandma and Grandpa Dredge looking up at me with big smiles on their faces. It was a wonderful experience. That was the first time I had ever spoken to such a crowd. The tabernacle was filled with people. Kenneth Ward (my cousin) was the other speaker, and everyone thought we were twins. Ha!
Karolyn and friends
Karolyn's High School Graduation
After I graduated from High school, Daddy let me take his brand-new Oldsmobile and three of my girlfriends to Jackson, Wyoming for a little vacation. (Can you believe he would let me do that?) 
Karolyn and friends in Jackson, Wyoming
We had a wonderful time, until we rented a rowboat and headed out on Jenny’s Lake. It was a beautiful day, clear blue skies, and the Grand Tetons were breathtaking.
Needless to say, none of us knew anything about rowing a rowboat. We had drifted out quite a long way when the wind started up and the black clouds started to roll in. We all took turns trying to paddle our way back to shore. Around in circles we would go. I started to pray and cry. I didn’t know how to swim a stroke and was scared of water to start with. We finally made it back to shore with the help of our Heavenly Father. I have never forgotten that experience and knew our prayers had been answered. I never visit Jenny’s Lake without that frightening experience coming back to my memory.